tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235178395586189455.post3831967649272563880..comments2023-05-29T04:12:52.673-07:00Comments on Adventures with the Hunsaker's: Papering the BasementLauriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16599470346281835985noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235178395586189455.post-26192985520571670952009-02-25T13:21:00.000-08:002009-02-25T13:21:00.000-08:00It is so easy to get frustrated with the antics Av...It is so easy to get frustrated with the antics Avery pulls. Kevin(Avery's clone) put me through a lot too. I didn't always choose the best solution in helping control him though-hindsight is always better than foresight. I liked to hear other's examples that could possibly give me help as he grew up. You have a lot of friends with great ideas. I hope something will work for you. With time all things will pass!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235178395586189455.post-9144727600266270882009-02-20T09:11:00.000-08:002009-02-20T09:11:00.000-08:00Avery, if you have a silly idea please tell Mommy ...Avery, if you have a silly idea please tell Mommy about it. She wants to be silly too but safe. Let her help you be silly and safe and you can help her be silly and safe. <BR/><BR/>Then side track the busy boy with your own brand of silly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235178395586189455.post-46750936774958920202009-02-14T13:03:00.000-08:002009-02-14T13:03:00.000-08:00I would totally agree that the indifference is mor...I would totally agree that the indifference is more frustrating than the brainlessness because they DO know what they're doing. It has been 'feelings week' at Chloe's school and we're definitely trying to use our words and discuss calmly. Tiring... Smart of you to slowly start the packing process - but you're a pro at it by now, huh? lol - it never gets easy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235178395586189455.post-9862182219953527852009-02-11T21:18:00.000-08:002009-02-11T21:18:00.000-08:00We actually do that a lot, and I think things woul...We actually do that a lot, and I think things would just be worse if we didn't. We try to have more "discussion" than yelling. After all, they can't learn much from yelling.<BR/>One of our problems is Avery calling names by saying "You ___" often he peters off, not being able to fill in the blank quickly, but sometimes he manages something nonsensical that obviously meant to be disparaging, or he's even gotten a "stupid" in there. He knows better, and I think IS trying to break that habit. Tonight was a great example where he started, but immediately stopped right after the "you" and started apologizing very courteously to Travis for it. I was super impressed. We just have to keep working with him on his self control.Lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16599470346281835985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-235178395586189455.post-19986137881641598072009-02-11T21:09:00.000-08:002009-02-11T21:09:00.000-08:00As long as you don't SAY any of those things to hi...As long as you don't SAY any of those things to him, you might be able to convince him that he really is a good kid. <BR/>Sometimes, when kids start throwing fits, having a hard time, seeking attention in the wrong ways, this is what we are trying: 1. OK, try over. 2. How would you say that with words instead of (behavior)? I feel upset because... It's even hard for adults to do, but you'd be giving your kids a good set of tools to communicate with later. <BR/>In our house this happens: Instead of screaming at Henry, how can you tell him? "Please Henry can you hand me that toy?" It's very interesting how polite they can sound at times. And I think Hazel is getting some good skills for kindergarten. Let me know if this helps/works.Mindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13898258094890823405noreply@blogger.com